0p0 Chapter 186 The couple wants to marry later, Zhou Huaying is worried that Liu Junhui will not have c
Chapter 186 The couple wants to marry later, Zhou Huaying is worried that Liu Junhui will not have c
Liu Junhui had made up her mind in her previous life that she must have a perfect wedding night.
Obviously, Liu Junhui and Li Yonggang had different ideas on this issue.
Li Yonggang tried to convince Liu Junhui, convincing her that living together would not be a problem and would make their relationship even deeper.
Liu Junhui insisted on her position and hoped that Li Yonggang could understand her decision.
Under such circumstances, Zhou Huaying's vote is crucial.
She hopes to have her grandchildren as soon as possible, but she doesn't want Huihui to get pregnant before getting a marriage certificate and holding a wedding.
If I do that, outsiders will laugh at me. My son is already a senior officer in the army, so how can I let others talk about his life?
Zhou Huaying is a traditional mother who attaches great importance to traditional values and traditional appearance.
"Yonggang, I think Huihui's idea is right."
Li Yonggang was stunned by what I said.
I have always hoped to maintain a close relationship with Yonghui.
When Yonghui was in his hometown, he took care of his mother's excrement and urine. In particular, Yonghui discovered the iron nails on his mother's waist, and then he tried every means to perform surgery on his mother to restore her health. What a great contribution this was.
At first, Li Yonggang did not like Liu Junhui, but his mother was afraid that her son would not like Liu Junhui, so she held a folk engagement ceremony according to the wishes of Liu Junhui's family.
Zhou Huaying was admitted to the 698 Hospital for surgery. Only then did she learn that her son had met Qing Lingping, the daughter of the base commander, on the train.
Qing Lingping is so beautiful, has such a high family status, and is a military doctor. How can Liu Junhui compare to Qing Lingping?
Qing Lingping happened to be Zhou Huaying's attending physician, and it was Qing Lingping who arranged for Zhou Huaying to be admitted to the 698 Hospital.
During that period, Zhou Huaying's thoughts and ideas were quite complicated.
Finally, the factor that determined Zhou Huaying's one-sided attitude was still her traditional ideas.
For thousands of years, as a woman, you should follow your husband wherever he goes, and be faithful to him throughout his life. This is the rule to maintain women's dignity.
This traditional idea still held a high status in the 1970s and 1980s.
As a man, once engaged or married, he must abide by this contractual rule.
Violating this rule is immoral, and will be condemned and despised by the public.
In addition, Liu Junhui did an excellent job in serving Zhou Huaying. Liu Junhui discovered the cause of Zhou Huaying's paralysis and eventually cured it. It was equivalent to giving Zhou Huaying a new life with Liu Junhui as the main person.
Therefore, although Zhou Huaying knew in her heart that if her son married Qing Lingping, it would be incomparable to her son marrying Liu Junhui in terms of his future, happiness and her own quality of life in the second half of her life.
However, how could I let my son be such a heartless man?
Not to mention what others say, even your own conscience cannot stand the self-condemnation and will eventually collapse.
In order to prevent her son from changing his mind and becoming a heartless man, Zhou Huaying certainly hopes that her son and Huihui can live in the same room and build an increasingly solid marriage relationship while staying together.
However, this consideration is in conflict with the consideration of not being able to face people because of Huihui getting pregnant.
Just now, when Liu Junhui and Li Yonggang were discussing, Zhou Huaying weighed the issue back and forth countless times.
Zhou Huaying's final attitude, or the tilt of her psychological balance, was the increasingly high self-worth demonstrated by Liu Junhui.
Now, Liu Junhui has become a remarkable person in Zhou Huaying's mind.
How many girls in the world have X-ray vision?
How many female heroes are there on the battlefield clearing mines and bunkers?
Not everyone can be a national heroine!
and also.
What does it mean that he won’t do the job of a military doctor?
This shows that Junhui has a higher aspiration!
How can we not respect the choice of such a rare daughter-in-law?
A woman who can give birth to a person like Li Yonggang is of course a smart woman, even though she is not very educated.
Seeing her son in a daze, Zhou Huaying further explained her attitude, "I think we should follow Huihui's advice. You don't usually live at home, so we should each have our own room!"
When Liu Junhui heard that her mother-in-law stood on her side, her two rows of white and neat teeth immediately smiled.
"Mom, you are so wise! Actually, there is another important reason why I won't live in the same room with Yonggang for the time being.
It’s just that Junlan can’t leave me anymore, she insists on sleeping in the same bed with me every day.”
With my mother holding this attitude, Junhui said that Xiang Junlan couldn't live without her, what else could Li Yonggang say.
Li Yonggang spoke some sincere words to his mother and Junhui.
He expressed his respect and understanding for Liu Junhui's decision and supported his mother's respect for traditional customs and maintenance of traditional values.
Zhou Huaying was very happy to hear her son's statement.
She further explained her point of view to her son.
She told her son that traditional customs are not always wrong. Before the wedding, couples should keep a certain distance, which can increase the sacredness and solemnity of the wedding.
She also reminded her son that if you respect Huihui's decision, you are also respecting and loving yourself.
Zhou Huaying also told her son and daughter-in-law that she believed their relationship was deep and firm, and they would still be close to each other even if they did not live in the same room for the time being.
Just when Liu Junhui and Li Yonggang thought that the topic had come to an end, Zhou Huaying suddenly asked a question.
"Huihui, Yonggang, when are you planning to get your marriage certificate and hold your wedding?"
Although Zhou Huaying advocated that her son and daughter-in-law should not live in the same room before the wedding, she hoped that her son and daughter-in-law would get a marriage certificate and hold their wedding as soon as possible.
Only by officially getting married can Qing Lingping give up her thoughts;
As a grandmother, I can’t wait to hold my grandchildren in my arms tomorrow.
In fact, Zhou Huaying has always had a beautiful wish in her heart, which is to see her son Yonggang and daughter-in-law Junhui get married as soon as possible and enter the palace of marriage hand in hand.
The greatest pursuit in life for rural elderly people is to have many children and grandchildren.
Zhou Huaying hopes that this new family can add more happiness and warmth.
However, Li Yonggang and Liu Junhui had different ideas from Zhou Huaying about when to get married.
They are a new generation, deeply influenced by the times, especially Li Yonggang, who wants to respond to the army's call to marry late.
Liu Junhui also hopes to achieve something in her career and lay a more solid foundation for a better life in the future.
After hearing my mother's question, Li Yonggang and Liu Junhui looked at each other.
Li Yonggang signaled Junhui to answer his mother first.
At this time, old man Zhou Huaying was sitting on the sofa in the living room, looking at his son Yonggang and daughter-in-law Junhui with anticipation, waiting for a reply.