0p0 Chapter 603 The little daughter who reorganized the family (55)
Chapter 603 The little daughter who reorganized the family (55)
When my mother spoke, she said it in front of Jin Ling and Jiang Jianguo.
So it's settled.
Jiang Jianguo was very happy.Jin Ling can get out of bed, hold the baby, feed milk, wash bottles, change diapers and wipe her buttocks.
Winter has passed and spring is here.
He actually knew that Jin Ling had been sitting a little too much this month, but considering that the family had lost a lot of money before and Jin Ling had been depressed throughout the pregnancy, he tried to convince himself to just endure it and get over it.There is also a child. Sometimes he wants to get angry, but thinking that this child can't even drink breast milk and can only drink milk powder, he feels a little pitiful.No matter how expensive milk powder is, it is definitely not as good as mother's milk.So, he gritted his teeth and endured it a little longer.
Now, doesn't he have a happy life after all his hardships?
Jiang Jianguo said to Jin Ling enthusiastically: "Anyway, you don't have to go to work now, just take care of the children at home. As for you, you should be consistent with the children. When the children sleep, you go to sleep. When the children wake up, you coax them. . As for things like washing diapers, it’s still my job and my dad’s. You can just take care of the child. I’ll also cover three meals a day.”
Jin Ling: "..."
She nodded in agreement.
In fact, the conditions proposed by Jiang Jianguo are already very generous to the vast majority of women in this era.She chats with her colleagues and knows a lot about other people's families. Comparatively speaking, her life is the most relaxed and comfortable.Most families will have conflicts between sisters-in-law, sisters-in-law, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.She didn't encounter any of these.
As a husband and father, Jiang Jianguo's performance is remarkable.Even Jin Ling couldn't find anything wrong with it.What's even more rare is that even though Jiang Jianguo fainted from exhaustion, he never lost his temper at Jin Ling and the child.
Jiang Jianguo had just had a good sleep, and he was extremely excited after receiving such good news.As if his IQ suddenly returned, he said to Jin Ling: "I think you should try your best to help your child develop a good habit of playing during the day and sleeping at night. In another month, we will send the child to daycare. If he is still the same as now, sleeping in the nursery during the day and making noises at home at night, and you return to work by then, working all day during the day, and still having to babysit the child at night, do you think you can adapt? "
Jin Ling: "!!!"
The brain that ran away from home is back.
Jin Ling was extremely upset and determined to change her child's habits in the next month.
But it's clear she has no understanding of human pups.
When he develops a habit, it is really difficult to completely change it and develop another habit.
Why did the old lady collapse from exhaustion?It's because she wanted her child to play during the day and sleep at night, but now the child's rhythm of life has been disrupted and he doesn't sleep during the day or night.
But he was very tired and sleepy, but couldn't fall asleep. He felt very uncomfortable, so he cried and fussed desperately.
Many people may not be aware of the fact that human pups do not sleep on their own.He was obviously very sleepy, but he just wouldn't sleep!
When he falls asleep, all he can do is find ways to coax him.There is a high possibility that if you hold him and walk back and forth to lull him to sleep, when he falls asleep and you want to stop and put him on the bed, he will wake up in an instant and let you pace half the way before. The results of hours of coaxing sleep were gone in an instant.If you want him to sleep, you have to hold him.As soon as he shows the slightest sign of waking up, just keep walking.
Jin Ling recalled the nights when Jiang Jianguo held and coaxed the child, and recalled the war between the old lady and the child in the past two days, and she felt bad.
But she had no choice but to bite the bullet.
Jiang Jianguo went to work and did housework at the same time, walking with a breeze.What's a little housework?Just a piece of cake.
After getting off work in the evening, after cooking, he and Jin Ling alternated eating, holding the child and coaxing him. When it was bedtime, he handed the child to Jin Ling, and he went to sleep in the room where Jiang Dazhi lived before.
In the bedroom, only Jin Ling and the child were left, looking at each other. The child's eyes showed the excitement of getting high, while Jin Ling's eyes showed the panic of facing a powerful enemy.
Two days later, Jin Ling collapsed.
The child's old habits were broken, and new habits were delayed. Her sleep time added up to less than eight hours a day, and it was still sporadic, so she slept even less.Most of the time, I still sleep with her in my arms.There was no way she was going to be consistent with her kids.
That night, Jiang Jianguo came back from get off work happily and heard his child crying.
Jin Ling was also crying, scolding while crying: "Can you stop crying? Can I beg you? Why don't you sleep? Why are you crying? I provoked you? Stop crying!"
The child ignored her at all and kept crying until he was out of breath.
Jiang Jianguo quickly picked up the child and patted his back to coax him for a long time before he slowly calmed down and fell asleep crying.
Looking at his wife who was crying very sadly, to be honest, Jiang Jianguo felt a little bit sympathetic and a little bit gloating about his misfortune.Finally, someone can empathize with him about the pain of raising children.
He said: "Why don't you go back to your parents' house and urge our mother to help find someone. At least I can help you during the day. It's just for this month."
This time Jin Ling didn't shirk, she washed her face and went out.
But she was destined to be disappointed.Because her mother really hasn’t found the right person yet.
After Jiang Dazhi told Jin Ling's mother before, Jin Ling's mother went through all the people she knew and found no suitable ones.
Jin Ling's mother was also worried. She had raised five children without ever frowning. Why was it so difficult for her little girl?Her three sons and the eldest daughter have all given birth to children, but no one is like this.
But her personal experience prevented her from saying, "You can't even raise a child."
Hey~
"Mom has searched all the people she knows, but there really is no one suitable."
She sighed and said, "Don't you have anyone suitable among your colleagues?"
Jin Ling shook his head and returned home dejectedly.
Jiang Jianguo knew the result was not good as soon as he saw her expression, and he kept sighing in his heart.
People tend to get confused when they are desperate. Just two days after their IQs returned to normal, the couple ran away from home.
Jin Ling tentatively said, "How about you go and try and see if Jiang Tu can come back and help me for a few days?"
Jiang Jianguo: "..."
"No need to ask, she will definitely not come back. With such trouble between us, how can she come back?"
This is really a case of urgent medical treatment.
"It works, let's try it first! She should be on winter vacation now, so she will come to help for more than ten days. Once the child has developed a habit, she won't need it anymore. We can also give her money."
"Then you might as well find a neighbor's lady to help. Since you are watching, she will just come to help you hold the baby."
"How can I rest assured about others? Jiang Hong and Jiang Tu always do things properly."
Moreover, she wanted people to stay here to help throughout the day, which the neighbor's aunt would definitely not be able to do.
Seeing Jiang Jianguo's hesitation, Jin Ling said again: "Don't think about me, but also think about the children. He has been making trouble these days, and his face has become thinner. Jiang Tu is still his little aunt, even if she is If you don't deal with us, how can you blame a child? Just go and try, if it works, try again."
Jiang Jianguo: "..."
When he went to work the next day, he told Jiang Dazhi about it.Jiang Dazhi's reaction was exactly the same as his.And his attitude is more decisive than Jiang Jianguo: "I don't know what you two are thinking, but I don't recommend you to do this anyway. Isn't Xu Cancan's incident enough for you to remember?"
Jiang Jianguo wiped his face.
Reason told him that he couldn't do this.
But that day after get off work, I saw my wife and son crying at the same time, and after listening to my wife's persuasion again, I ran away from home rationally.
Early the next morning, Jiang Jianguo set off early and went to the food factory.He didn't plan to find Jiang Tu, but wanted to convince Jiang Hong first. As long as Jiang Hong agreed, Jiang Tu would be fine.
He felt that it was easier for two men to talk.A man has a big belly, so as long as he talks nicely, Jiang Hong shouldn't be so small.Besides, that's Jiang Hong's nephew.
Jiang Tu was sleeping in at home, and he really succeeded in blocking people.
When Jiang Hong saw him, it was as if he hadn't seen him, and he didn't even look at him.
Jiang Jianguo had no choice but to walk over and shout: "Jiang Hong."
At this moment, Jiang Hong had no choice but to stop: "Is something wrong?"
"It's a small matter, let's chat for a while."
"No time. And I have nothing to talk to you about. Don't come to me in the future."
After saying that, Jiang Hong was about to leave.
Jiang Jianguo reached out and took his arm: "Just 2 minutes."
Jiang Hong didn't want to get entangled with him at the factory gate, so he walked to the side and found a secluded place.
"Tell me, what's the matter?"
"Your sister-in-law has given birth to a baby. It's a boy. You become an uncle."
Jiang Hong: "I only have one sister, no brother, and no sister-in-law. What you said has nothing to do with me. Don't say it again in the future."
Jiang Jianguo: "..."
He felt that there was a high probability that he would fail today.
However, even though we are here, let’s talk about our demands.
"Bringing up a child is harder than I thought. Jin Ling can't do it by herself. I wonder if Tutu is on winter vacation right now. Can she help?"
After saying that, he glanced at Jiang Hong, thinking that if he got an answer, it would be okay, or if it wasn't, forget it.To be honest, he also regretted coming.It feels a bit like humiliating myself.
But unexpectedly, Jiang Hong didn't say anything and just punched him.