0p0 Chapter 401: My biological mother is no longer a stepmother (16)
Chapter 401: My biological mother is no longer a stepmother (16)
The next morning, when Yang Wenzhen saw Sun Mingxia again, she saw her face was haggard. Her usually bright and bright smiling face was rarely expressionless, and she had two big dark circles under her eyes. She was sitting on a chair thinking about life.There was also a huge pimple on my chin, which looked red and swollen.
Teacher Sun Hongbin has her first class today and has already gone to the classroom early.
It was rare that Little White Flower didn't chirp, and she sat on the chair honestly. When she saw her coming in, she immediately waved to her.
Yang Wenzhen walked over and heard Xiao Baihua say in an angry voice: "I don't know what happened to Teacher Sun. She came earlier than me today. She was not on duty yesterday and did not live in the school. Judging from her state, is she the same as her? Did the partner quarrel?"
Xiao Baihua's tone contained worries about her colleagues and a strong hint of gossip.After spending this time together, Yang Wenzhen's impression of this colleague was better than before.This is a little white flower that makes people love and hate her at the same time, especially her little talk. She is neither hated nor loved.
Yang Wenzhen also replied angrily: "Just ask me directly, we are whispering here, don't let Teacher Sun misunderstand again."
When a person is worried, she hates it when others whisper behind her back. It is easy to think that others are talking about her.If you have anything to say, speak frankly, and if you have questions, ask them frankly.
Xiaobaihua: "You are right."
She stood up, pulled up a chair and sat next to Teacher Sun, and said directly: "Teacher Sun, you don't seem to have slept well. Is there something wrong? If you need anything, just say something. We are in the same office and we sympathize. Sister, please stay out of sight." Please satisfy my curiosity.
Yang Wenzhen was sitting opposite Teacher Sun and also said, "Yeah, don't keep it in your mind. There are three cobblers and Zhuge Liang. If there is anything that worries you, tell us and we will analyze it for you."
Sun Mingxia looked at the two bright and beautiful female colleagues in front of her, feeling as if she was in another world.Although she only lived her life in a dream, she had truly experienced the pain, guilt, self-blame, hard work, and melancholy.Not only that, she also saw that not even three months after her death, the son she raised carefully and the daughter-in-law she chose took the initiative to introduce a wife to her husband, and she got along extremely well with her. Harmony, even more harmonious than getting along with her own mother.
At that moment, even though she had died in the dream and only her weak soul was left, she still felt the biting cold.
Thinking about the daughters she aborted in her dream, there was never a moment in her life when she did not blame herself or feel sad. The reason why she died so early was not only physical reasons, but also psychological factors played a big role.
She felt that this was a warning from God, telling her not to make the same mistake again.
Sun Mingxia had no doubt about the authenticity of the dream, because in the dream, the person who performed the gender identification on her was the person her husband knew in reality.All the details are correct.
She was hit by the dream and hurt by her husband and son, so she became depressed.
Sun Mingxia: "It's not a big deal. Didn't we talk about having boys and girls yesterday? After I got home, I talked with my man and found that he is also very patriarchal. If I get pregnant in the future, maybe He would also ask me to get an appraisal, and if it was a girl, he might ask me to abort it, after all, that’s what his elder brother did. So I was very angry and didn’t sleep well at night.”
She couldn't tell her what she was dreaming about, and if she told others, they wouldn't believe her, and they might even laugh at her for being superstitious.
Little Baihua asked in surprise: "Could it be that it's just lip service, but it's actually fine? Just like what Teacher Hongbin said, as long as you give birth to a boy or a girl, you will love him?"
Teacher Sun’s partner looked like a dog, but he didn’t expect that he turned out to be such a scum!
Sun Mingxia shook her head: "No. I think he is very determined, and he also knows a doctor who can secretly do an appraisal."
Yang Wenzhen asked: "Then what are you going to do?"
Should I continue to live with him and resolutely give birth to a baby if I get pregnant, or should I just divorce and start a new life?
Sun Mingxia: "I'm still thinking, I haven't decided yet. If it were you, what would you do?"
Yang Wenzhen and Xiao Baihua said in unison: "Divorce."
Sun Mingxia: "..."
Is it that easy?
Yang Wenzhen motioned to Xiao Baihua to speak first, because her purpose was a bit too clear, and what she said was somewhat preachy, not as fresh and natural as Xiao Baihua.
At this moment, Xiao Baihua is her mouth substitute.
Sure enough, Xiao Baihua lived up to her expectations: "Think about it, if you insist on living with him, there are nothing more than two situations. One is that you listen to him and you will have a baby until you give birth to a boy. But in this case , your body will definitely suffer a lot of damage, and you may be plagued by illness in the future. It may hurt here or there, and it will also age quickly. And the son you gave birth to will be doted on by the whole family because he is more delicate. Doted on What good can your child do? What can you expect? Maybe in the end, you worked hard to bring him up, and he took it for granted and didn't say anything. The worst thing is that when he grows up, you die of illness."
Sun Mingxia was choked by her frankness and had a heart attack.Isn't this her real life in the dream?It turns out that she is the only one who is so stupid and can’t see through it at all!
Sun Mingxia: "What about the second one?"
Xiao Baihua: "The second thing is that you don't listen to him and give birth to a baby right away. If it's a boy, it's fine. But if it's a girl, he may keep complaining about you and nagging you, and your life will be miserable. Jump. Your daughter may not get the love of her father, and she may have to grow up in a very bad environment. Her father and grandparents who favor boys over girls may say that she is a loser and a bitch. Think about it, how could this be better? ? Even if you make a decisive decision and get divorced at that time and take care of the children by yourself, then your daughter will have to face the worldly criticism, and some children may call her a wild child without a father. Do you think she will be happy? "
Xiao Baihua concluded: "If you are sure that your husband is a patriarchal guy and a feudal remnant who must have a son, otherwise he will not be able to survive, the best choice is to divorce immediately."
Yang Wenzhen raised her hand and seconded: "I think what Zhang Xiaobai said is very reasonable. The right way is to keep cutting off, but to be disturbed by it. If you know clearly what kind of virtue he is, and there is no possibility of reforming him, then there is really no need to fight with him. He kept entangled. You must know that the more you pay, the harder it is to let go, and the tail is too big to fall off."
Sun Mingxia listened to the analysis of her two colleagues and nodded, feeling that both of them were smarter than her.Although she was angry at the life in her dream, she didn't want to divorce immediately.Instead, she will give birth as soon as she gets pregnant. If her man refuses to do it, she will get divorced at that time.She probably had some expectations for this man, right?
It's ridiculous to think about it. What did she expect?What did she expect from this man?
Sun Mingxia's eyes gradually became firm, and she said, "You two are right, I have to divorce her."
Xiao Baihua said with a smile: "You can figure it out on your own. We women still have to plan more for ourselves. Just like me, I earned the opportunity to go to school by playing around at home. If I wasn't allowed to have sex, I would make trouble." My parents threatened to beat me to death, but I wasn’t afraid. If they couldn’t beat me to death, I would continue to make trouble, and I didn’t work at home. They had no other choice, so they told me, ‘I can go to school, but we don’t care. You pay the tuition and you figure it out on your own.' At that time, I graduated from elementary school and was just short of the money to go to junior high school. I borrowed my tuition from my neighbor, but fortunately my neighbor was kind enough to lend it to me. Of course. , I have paid it all off now. If I didn’t make trouble, I would have been like my eldest and second sister, who went home to farm before finishing elementary school."
Sun Mingxia and Yang Wenzhen did not expect that Xiao Baihua would have such an experience, and they were both amazed at her history of struggle.
Xiao Baihua smiled and said: "Don't look at me like this. If you don't do it for yourself, you will be destroyed. I have to plan for myself. As for what others say about me, I don't care. Some people in our village say that I am good and that I can live a good life. Some people also scold me, saying that I am unfilial and have trouble with my parents at a young age. I don’t care, I live my life for myself.”
Sun Mingxia felt like she had been reborn, and agreed: "You are right, we women are already in a difficult situation, and we have to plan for ourselves."
Today's conversation has come to a successful conclusion.
Suddenly, Xiao Baihua asked Yang Wenzhen: "You seemed to have called me Zhang Xiaobai just now? What's your nickname for me? What does it mean?"
Yang Wenzhen: "..."
Because you are like a little white flower swaying in the wind, but you can't say this.Even if she doesn't understand it now, she might understand it later.
"Because your skin is white."
Xiao Baihua smiled and stroked her face, and said proudly: "Then I am quite white, a natural beauty. I can't even tan in the sun. But Teacher Yang, you are also quite fair, you seem to be fairer than me. Then you will Just call her Yang Dabai."
Yang Wenzhen: "..."
Sun Mingxia burst into laughter: "You two are quite fair, but I am a little darker. Compared with you two, I probably have to be called Sun Dahei."
In fact, Sun Mingxia is not considered dark. Her skin color is a healthy wheat color, which is relatively light.
The little white flower laughed so hard that her branches trembled, and said: "It's not that exaggerated. Teacher Sun, you are quite white too, why don't you call me Erbai."
Yang Wenzhen: "..."
Just be happy!