0p0 Chapter 386: My biological mother is no longer a stepmother (1)
Chapter 386: My biological mother is no longer a stepmother (1)
"How is your relationship with Dalin going? If you think it's okay, will you settle down?"
As soon as Changning came to this world, she heard Li Xiaoxi, the mother of the original owner, asking her.
"Not very good." Chang Ning answered, while quickly receiving the memory and world line, and then added a few words: "He and I are not suitable. He just listens to everything and has no opinion at all. Like a weaned child. And before he and I even knew each other, he told me that he would have a son after we get married. Mom, who can say for sure whether it will be a son or a daughter. Look at them With this attitude in my family, if I can’t give birth to a son, my life will be difficult.”
"Is that so? I think he has a gentle temper, is easy to talk to, and respects your father and me. I think he's okay. Do you really think it's inappropriate?"
"Inappropriate! Absolutely inappropriate! Mom, I'm only 20 years old. Why are you so anxious to marry me off? Besides, my brother is only 17 and has just entered the first year of high school. There are still 5 years left before he reaches the legal age for marriage. Yeah. Even if I don't get married, I can't affect his marriage."
"What does it have to do with your brother? It's time for boys to get married and girls to get married when they're old. You're 20, and you're not too young anymore. You don't understand. The younger you are, the easier it is to find someone, and you can still be picky. When you get older, you'll be married. If someone else picks the rest, what else can be good about it.”
Chang Ning twitched the corner of his mouth, "You are picking vegetables from the vegetable market. If you go in the morning, they will be fresh. If you go in the evening, they will be piles of wilted vegetables."
"Anyway, Dalin is not suitable. Mom, I know it well, so don't worry about it. Even if I don't get married, I can still live a good life with a job and a salary. If you are worried that my not getting married will affect my brother's marriage, etc. When he wants to kiss me, I will not come back, and I will definitely not affect him."
In fact, she only comes back once a week now.The original owner worked as a geometry teacher in a middle school in the town. He usually lived in a single dormitory allocated to young teachers by the school, a small bungalow, usually ate in the cafeteria, and returned home once a week, which was consistent with the life pattern of a student living on campus.
Li Xiaoxi knocked her head: "What nonsense are you talking about? How can you do it without getting married? Dalin can't do it, let's find someone else."
Chang Ning: "..."
I knew I wouldn't be able to convince the stubborn Ms. Li for a while.She had no choice but to warn: "Don't make your own decisions. If you want to find a partner for me, you must agree with me. If you order it yourself, I won't recognize it! It will still be your face that will be embarrassed."
Li Xiaoxi waved his hand: "Okay, okay, you just came back, go and have a rest first, your mother and I are not that kind of person."
Changning agreed and returned to his room.
Today's conversation can be regarded as the starting point of the original owner's tragic life.Now, it has been reversed.
It is now 1986. People's communes and production teams have become history, and household quotas have been implemented.
Her name in this life is Yang Wenzhen.The family has a simple population, with only four people: father Yang Yong, mother Li Xiaoxi, her and her brother Yang Wenyuan.My grandparents have passed away, but I do have uncles, but they are all separated.According to their customs here, once a family is divided, it will be a completely independent family, and they can settle accounts between brothers.Even if you borrow a dollar, you have to pay it back.But when something big happens, they will help each other.
Her father and mother were both honest farmers who had suffered enough and wanted to get their two children out of the countryside. They had no way to find jobs for their children, so they had to focus on going to school. thing.In the words her father often talks about, that is: "As long as you can pass the exam, your mother and I will sell everything for you to study. You just study hard and don't worry about anything else."
In order for their two children to study with peace of mind and not have to worry about tuition fees and book fees, Yang Yong and Li Xiaoxi really worked day and night, especially after the household responsibility system, they worked hard to serve the crops.You can sow whatever you want to make money, it doesn't matter if it's a bit hard or a bit tiring.
Her parents are a bit patriarchal, but only at the ideological level. In real life, her father loves his son as much as his daughter, and her mother loves her even more.She often asked her brother to give in to her, and always said: "Your sister has only been able to live a happy life in her parents' family for the past 20 years. When she gets married, she will never be as comfortable as she is at home."
Who would have thought that Ms. Li Xiaoxi’s words would come true.
In the original world, the original owner thought Dalin was quite good. She had the same view as her mother. She felt that he had a gentle temper and would not be annoyed when they lived together. Therefore, when Li Xiaoxi asked her "How are things going?", the original owner said: "It's pretty good." Just him."
Then, the relationship between the original owner and Dalin developed by leaps and bounds, and she married him not long after.
But both the original owner and Li Xiaoxi thought wrong. The reason why Dalin was gentle was because his mother was very strong.She is not angry with Dalin, but she is angry with her mother-in-law.
As the only son of the Lin family, Dalin couldn't even separate the family and lead a separate life.
Here, the family will be separated only if there are many sons. If there is only one son, it is impossible to separate the family.Everyone will accuse you of being unfilial!
There is a family in the village, and the mother-in-law's usual tactic to manipulate her daughter-in-law is to "separate the family."As long as her daughter-in-law doesn't satisfy her, she will start clamoring for a separation.The daughter-in-law must compromise.
Because she only has one son, she knows that her son and daughter-in-law will definitely not want to bear the reputation of being unfilial, and they will definitely not separate from her.Therefore, even if her grandson already has a daughter-in-law, she can still use this excuse to make decisions about her daughter-in-law.
Of course, this premise is that her daughter-in-law and son are both good people. If they really want to be generous, she can't help it.
Dalin's father is the village party secretary, and his mother sells things at the village supply and marketing cooperative, which is also a formal job. Dalin himself works at the agricultural machinery station in the town. He also has a younger sister who has been working at home as a farmer after graduating from junior high school.
Speaking of which, the two families are considered a perfect match.The Dalin family is slightly stronger.
Dalin's mother acted cheerful and cheerful to the outside world, and she probably deceived everyone.Therefore, during their pre-marriage relationship, Ms. Li Xiaoxi inquired about the situation of her in-laws' family, but did not find out any useful information.
After the two got married, things went well at first.After all, the young couple usually lives in the town and only comes back on weekends.Even if Dalin's mother found fault, she didn't go too far.
A year after the two got married, the original owner gave birth to a daughter. Now, the situation took a turn for the worse.