0p0 Chapter 343 Guiding Public Opinion
Chapter 343 Guiding Public Opinion
This is the bad thing about ancient times. People from the same family have too tight interests. If one person goes to heaven, the others will follow; if one person goes to hell, the others will go to hell with him.
Personal abilities and freedom are directly swallowed up by the huge behemoth of the family.
And several families who were exposed for having secret affairs with other people's wives or husbands have also been in a lot of trouble recently.
Several couples are planning to divorce and are currently struggling over the issue of who should own the children.
Of course, Shen Ruyi has given a lot of advice to these victims in private. A single spark can start a prairie fire. If no one else can be the spark, then she can do it.
Through the letters that Shen Ruyi had someone bring over, and the various analyses given to these women, the women who had previously regarded men as the heaven began to slowly awaken. They found that they had suffered a loss, a huge loss.
The woman who had given up on the man became clear-headed and started to function normally online.
If they live alone, they have money and free time, they don't have to fight with the man's other women, deal with the relationship between sisters-in-law, and serve their parents-in-law. They just need to give orders, go shopping, and listen to operas.
When they thought about this day, it was simply beautiful. It was the best day in their hearts. Why should they use their own money to support other women and other children for the man? It was a loss, a big loss.
Of course, Shen Ruyi also hinted to the other party that if they wanted a divorce, they should not be afraid of making a fuss or being embarrassed, because the government would most likely grant the divorce.
Of course, there is also a type of people who still have their hearts set on men no matter how badly they are treated by them.
Shen Ruyi was too lazy to care about this kind of people. It was hard to persuade the damned ghost with kind words. Besides, they really enjoyed it and were willing to do it. In fact, this was also a choice.
When you don't feel that you are at a disadvantage in something, you can still continue.
Even if others think you have suffered a huge loss, but you feel that you have not suffered any loss, then you have not suffered any loss. Everyone has a different tolerance level.
You can't use the same standard to demand the other party. Divorce is for happiness, and not divorcing is also for happiness. As long as the parties feel that it is okay, it is worth it.
Besides, each monkey has its own way of tying up. Just enjoy yourself.
Of course, Shen Ruyi also had her own selfish motives. She wanted to take advantage of this opportunity to fish in troubled waters and demonstrate the benefits of freedom and divorce with actual cases to the officials and some women.
Of course, she has done a lot of tricks in private, and money has been spent like water. Public opinion has been completely led by her. Wherever she wants the wind to blow, that's where the wind of public opinion blows.
If the common people were to explain the situation to the women, they would suffer a great loss. It would be better for them to be happy alone.
After a lot of analysis, the common people thought, hey, it's really the case. These women have suffered so much. They are definitely being taken advantage of.
Divorce, divorce, it's time to divorce. Why do these stinky men take all the benefits but don't know how to cherish such a good wife, and even hook up with other coquettish bitches? They must be taught a lesson.
Women are naturally more likely to empathize with other women. As long as you pay attention to the way and skills of speaking, no woman will not be angry after listening to you. This is not a pure innocence. Why?
In the early stage, the men felt that they were the ones who benefited, and they were very proud of it. They felt that these men brought honor to them as men, and that they were really capable and charming, and were their role models.
The people sent by Shen Ruyi made an analysis of the situation, which directly aroused the jealousy in these men's hearts and magnified their unwillingness, causing a direct reversal of public opinion.
Yes, damn, he can't even support his own wife, life is so difficult. These officials not only have a wife who is talented, beautiful, and has a strong background, but also a bunch of concubines and maids.
How can they enjoy all the happiness of having two wives? This is not fair. These bastards treat their wives like this, how can they still borrow the power of their wives' families?
What I can't get, others can get easily and don't cherish. Since they don't know how to cherish, it's better to lose it directly. People are afraid of psychological imbalance.
As a result, the public opinion in the whole capital changed completely. People were no longer discussing how to continue their lives, but when these couples would divorce.
Even the gambling houses have changed their mind, and are betting on how long it will take for these couples to reconcile, rather than whether they can reconcile as before and pretend nothing happened.
The families of these women who wanted to divorce were not very supportive at first. Once their daughters who had married out got divorced, it would easily affect the marriages of their children who were already married or unmarried.
As a result, within a few days of this incident, the public opinion in the capital city took a big turn. The people in the capital city were waiting for their daughter to divorce.
If they do not support the girl's divorce, they will not be qualified as good fathers and grandfathers and will be despised by others.
Now even their colleagues would come over and say a few words when they see them, "If you love your daughter (granddaughter), please help them get a divorce. This child has had a very difficult life."
"If the old doesn't go, the new won't come. What needs to be severed needs to be severed. Don't dither."
It seems that if they do not support divorce for girls who have married out, they will be sinners for all eternity.
I was worried before that my daughter’s divorce would affect other children, but now I see that not getting divorced will affect the outside world’s comments about my family.
After asking around, these families directly helped the girl negotiate a divorce, but ended up quarreling with her. The former allies now became rivals.
Because the gossip from above said that the government did not approve of this matter, but did not oppose it either. As long as it stood on the right side and stood on the righteous side, he, as the government official, would not interfere too much.
These families felt relieved as the news said the government had no objection. They could roughly assume that the government approved of this matter.
The people are all in favor of separation now, so what is there to worry about? Just do it.
Shen Ruyi controlled the public opinion of the grassroots people while continuing to serve as a military advisor to these people.
As for whether to take the children with you, Shen Ruyi replied in the letter: "It depends on the children you have given birth to. Are your parents-in-law good to them? Are they close to them? It also depends on how your parents-in-law behave and whether they are reliable and trustworthy.
There is only one principle. If you think that the child is safe and good for the child's future development and marriage, then keep the child. If you think that the husband's family is unreliable and that the child's safety will be in question if the child is kept, then the child must be taken away to avoid any accidents.